Before Midnight ::: She will not talk to a square!

Now that I am in the position to answer a question. I have to make my
best effort to help a guy meet a lady. By the way ladies, this post will not put you out there.
So be kind and read as well. It will give you some inside ideas on how
to deal with the approach.

So I found myself wandering the thought-scape, attempting to figure out the beauty of the chase. Since I received and e-mail of someone asking me how to meet a lady on a Saturday night.I must be honest about the time that has lapsed since I met someone. I am a little tide up at the moment. However I must be nice and pull from my mental archive and share the thought.

Although it has been a while the game does not change. So you go out there and do what needs to be done. For me I I never had any one way of meeting anyone. I just felt the moment and went with my gut. It usually worked out for me. Quite possible it can work out for you as well. If not, read on!



So if you want to meet someone at a club, lounge, or restaurant. Some things need to be understood and always respected or you would not have a chance in hell to get what you think you can get from the situation.

So the best thing to do now is get out your pen and paper or warm up that printer. Here are 7 +2 rules to be well aware of before midnight.

• Work out and eat properly before going out. (Trust me you will feel confident)
• Read a newspaper ( You will have something to talk about, but do stay away from grim news. The entertainment and/or business section usually works best)
• Don't be shy
  
• Always introduce yourself with confidence
• Never ask for a dance offer the dance to be had
• Take into account she is not alone and pay attention to her friends
  
• Never buy her a drink that is not on her menu
• Don't become a shadow ( Introduce yourself, have a drink and walk away. If you are worth her time, she will ask for your number)
  
• You should know this one. But your clothes, breath, and attitude must be sharp for you to pull off the first four.

Now go out and have a good time and if you can meet someone before midnight let me know. If it is after midnight its, just not worth it.


Here are some videos to get you charged for the night, the rest is up to you:

Glenn Lewis feat. Kardinal Offishall - Back For More

In da club - 50 cent

AZ - Hey AZ feat. SWV